How Does Smiling to Attract Girls Work?

Look into a mirror and smile as you would at a girl, what does it look like? Is it warm and friendly or is it flirty?

The way you smile at girl can either ring alarm bells inside her or make her feel comfortable. A flirty smile does not always work if it does not have a sense of warm to it. Girls are afraid of players, that's the reason why most of them are cautious around good looking guys.

How to avoid the player smile?

What you think is what reflects on your face. If you think happy thoughts your face will look relaxed and comfortable, if you think depressing thoughts your face would take a look of sadness. Understanding the relationship between your thoughts and your facial expression can help you greatly while dealing with girls.

When you approach a girl, what are thinking? The player is usually thinking along these lines

• How can I manipulate her into dating me?
• What kind of opening line should I use?
• How do I get her phone number?

Thinking along these lines and smiling would cause your smile to have an artifical look about it. Girls immediately recognize it as the player's smile and they get repelled immediately.

How to avoid the nervous smile

A nervous or uncertain smile is a turn off. This means you are not confident of yourself. This again has to do with your thoughts. What does a nervous guy think before approaching a girl?

• Will she reject me or give me rebuff?
• Am I looking and smelling good?
• What should I talk about?

When your mind is racing away with negative thoughts it will immediately reflect on your face and your smile looks fake.

How to smile the warm and friendly smile?

This is the smile girls are attracted to. It conveys a sense of honestly and frankness.

Here are a few tips to accomplish it

• Have no thoughts. Thinking and planning would get in the way.
• Focus on the girls and give her your complete attention
• Be conscious of your body and face, this way you won't get fidgety
• Be spontaneous in your approach. Don't practice what you want to say. It will sound mechanical.

Don't look to manipulate, just be confident within yourself the attraction will come on its own. Guys who are insecure about their personality would try to manipulate and it comes off as fake. Develop trust in yourself and be secure in your own skin, that's the only secret to attraction.