How To Keep Your Girlfriend Happy?

It's a paradox but the more you try to keep your girlfriend happy the less happy she will be. Her happiness lies in her attraction for you, if that dwindles she is likely to get back to gloom.

Girls look at their boyfriend as someone who can ignite attraction in her not as someone who is always looking to make her happy. If you end goal is to please her, it will have the opposite effect. For girls attraction is generated when the guy is a challenge for her, this keeps her life interesting.

Most guys would find this surprising, but look at all the guys who have been in bad relationships and been dumped. They were all nice guys who wanted to please their girlfriend, why did it not work for them?

To keep her happy you need to keep her attracted to you, that's all. This is what you should do to keep her attraction going.

Have a life beyond your girlfriend - Keep yourself busy, hang out with your friends, have an interesting hobby, hit the gym every evening and be the sports freak you are without making excuse for it. If your world revolves around her, it won't be long before she feels suffocated.

Don't comply with her always - You have mind of your own and its not the same as hers so you don't have to like everything she does. If there is anything with annoys you just let her know. Your opinions and point of view should be important to you.

Talk slow and walk slow - This the best body language you can project. It reeks of relaxed energy. Always talk slow and be completely conscious of your body, keep it relaxed. Make sure there are no hasty movements when you walk.

Don't argue, just leave - Never try to argue or convince her. If her behavior is not right, just leave with an explanation. Don't apologize if its not your mistake. Let her come back on her own accord if she wants to.

Let her respect you first -Girls in their minds place love and respect on an even keel. If she does not respect you, she can never really feel attracted to you. Be disciplined and the respect will come on its own. Don't appear desperate or do anything without thought, men are never careless with words or action.