There are five reasons why your girlfriend doesn’t answer your calls or talk to you.

• She has lost interest in you.
• She does not respect you enough.
• She finds other things more interesting than talking to you.
• She wants to end the relationship.
• She is indirectly telling you to leave her alone.

The bottom line being that your girlfriend is no longer in love with you. It’s that simple. You might want to come up with several logical reasons why she doesn’t answer you, but the fact remains that a girl would never avoid talking to her boyfriend unless she has lost interest in him. There is no other reason; logic is not something you associate with attraction.

What should you do?

You should do three simple things:

• Stop calling her or messaging her completely.
• Don’t bother thinking about her and keep yourself busy with other things.
• Start looking out for another girlfriend.

It’s no use trying to sort out a relationship which has already ended. If she is not answering you, she wants to break off. So don’t go after her, avoid her completely. In fact just move on, look out for a new girlfriend.

There is a possibility that she might want to come back on her own accord when she sees that you have stopped calling her. This time her respect for you would be more, because she would see that you have a life without her.

Simple thumb rule to remember – Never go after a girl, let her come to you. If she does not just move on.