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So How Do You Get A GF?

It’s a no brainier that as a guy you need a female connection. If you are one of the lucky guys who is still lonely and looking for a girl, then you have come to the right place. I call you lucky because the process of getting a GF is a totally awesome experience. Imagine that you are going to find the girl you want in your life; you are going to get close to her; you are going make her fall in love with you and get all the juicy perks of having a girlfriend who is crazy about you. Now if that isn’t an awesome experience, then what is?

The stark reality though is that you presently don’t have a girl friend. So how to get one? Not just any girlfriend mind you. She ought to be a girl with whom..

  • you are in love with.
  • you find really pretty or hot as your liking may be.
  • you think would be fun to have in your life.

This site is all about helping you get this girl. It’s no sweat. The best part is that you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Lets get started!

Accepting The Reality

It’s important for you to face the reality first before taking any action to change it. Your life situation is presently lacking a GF. The reasons could be several. Some of them are listed below:

  • You are an introvert and don’t approach girls for a casual talk.
  • You are a human of high IQ (euphemism for geek) and hence girls keep away from you.
  • You have a complex about your facial looks (a common reason among guys).
  • You have a complex about your physique.
  • You think you are not well settled in life (financially).
  • You are scared of girls (especially their high pitch laughter).
  • You are scared of failures or rejection (nobody likes a slap on the cheek).
  • You are not sure if girls would like you as a person.
  • You dont think you have any cool attributes about you.

Well the list goes on. Every guy who is living without a GF and seeking one would have an excuse or a solid reasoning for their present condition. Some guys just brush it off stating “girls are a pain”. It’s easy to avoid a problem. Not having a GF is a problem and you know it. Take a moment to think about all your beliefs which are stopping you from getting a GF. Some of us never take the time to do a little introspection. Go ahead and do it now.

How to Become Boyfriend Material?

Here is a modular bootcamp to become a boyfriend material:

Develop a female attraction body language:

The factor of attraction has more to do with your body language than your communication skills. You don’t need to talk to generate attraction in a girl. Read more about how to attract girls through body language.

Develop the art of flirting:

Your body language will attract the girls but you need to take it further. You will need to initiate flirting. This is an important step. It involves changing a few aspects of your normal behavior. Read about flirting with girls like a pro.

Develop your kino skills or the art of touching:

This is an important step towards entering the boyfriend domain. Girls are very sensitive to touch. You need to develop the art of playful touching and sensual touching to get the girls to respond to your signals. Learn about this powerful technique in this article.

Develop the alpha attitude:

Once the girl gets interested in you she will start observing you more closely. She will start testing you. This is an exciting phase, more because you now know that she is interested. You need to come across as an alpha male to get her to fall in love with you. Learn about how to develop the instincts of an alpha male to attract girls.

Initiating the first kiss:

Make no mistake about it, this is the precursor to sex. The first kiss is vital. Girls have a sixth sense about how confident a guy is based on the way he kisses. It’s usually a natural thing, but a few tips can never hurt. Read about, initiating the first kiss in the right way.

Proposing to your girl:

How do you know if your girl is your GF yet? Unless there is a verbal commitment you can’t really be sure. Most guys are scared to propose to a girl, I am not talking about marriage proposal here. You need to let her know that you love her and know what she feels about you. Living in a misunderstanding will end up being painful for you later. Read about how to propose to your girl.

Dealing With the Consequences

If you followed the boot-camp to the word I am sure you would have had success with girls. I am assuming that you have already gone from being a loner to becoming a foolproof boyfriend material. The rest of the journey is simple. Make sure you don’t get too complacent along the way, remember the thumb rule “Girls will test”. The best way to deal with these situations in life is to be relaxed. From here on I will be putting on a few miscellaneous articles relating to certain specific problems you might face in your relationship. Remember, you are done with the hard part. It’s a cruise from here on.

More Interesting Articles

How Should I Propose To My GF?
Girls love being surprised and they hate the ordinary. How you propose to your girlfriend would be important to her even if she has already decided to accept.

How to Ask Someone to Be Your GF?
You really like this girl and have gotten to know her, now you want to ask her to be your GF. How do you go about it? Read on.

How Do I Show My GF That I Love Her?
In a relationship it is important to communicate your love, read about how to show your GF that you love her.

Find Out if Your Girlfriend Truly Loves You or Not
How do you find out if your GF loves you or not? Read about how to judge her feeling for you by her actions.

What Do I Say When I Propose To My GF
It is important to use the right words when you propose just to make it more romantic and special for her. Read about the right things to say when you propose to your GF.

How Do I Know If My GF is Right for Me?
How do you know if your GF is right for you? There are ways to find out, by looking at your feelings when you are around her. Read all about it.

Tips on How to Make Your GF Feel Special
Girls are romantics. They love the simple things and extravaganzas in the relationship as long as it touches their heart. Read to gain tips on how to make your GF feel special.



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  • Bob R

    It’s true that confidence is the first thing that a girl notices in a guy and that’s what I basically lack big time. I liked the body language article on this site, it has given me a point to start at. I am an introvert and would love to get an introverted girlfriend but those are hard to come by it seems. Also girls who are introverted, oddly go after extroverted guys. Not sure why. Anycase, good luck to all in finding the girl of their dreams.

  • Anonymous

    I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now and God how I wish I had seen some of these articles back then. She was my dream girl, the hot girl in our school, and ironically enough my first girlfriend so I had to wing everything. But even after getting the girl I’m still always trying to find something “new” to do and since I started using a your advice our relationship has definitely improved. Thank you!

  • Matt

    I just looked at this; I haven’t got a girlfriend in my life yet. I really think this is going to help me. Thank you very much for doing this all for people like us reading it.

  • Paul

    I’m 22 year old. I was experimenting the entire process for 2 weeks from now as in today I want to thank the writer about the work. Small but very effective things that he mentioned, I used to neglect earlier. Today I proposed my girl and it was a yes. Thank you πŸ™‚ Great work people should give it a try.

  • Jade

    As a 26 year old women I think this can help boys/men finding their true love but we so don’t have a high pitch laugh. Apart from that you are right and guys women don’t like it if you hold back so just go for it.

  • Amir

    Awesome! I should mention that it works worldwide! I’m an Iranian and have a crush on an Indian girl and I do find your tips so useful! They are the simple ways of showing the world language – LOVE!

  • Needlefish

    Thanks for the advice, I hope they work. There are lots of things here that I didn’t know. All you say is that we need to make a little effort to make girls notice us more often and I do not know if it was a coincidence or not but yesterday I noticed at the mall that a pretty girl was looking at me. It even gave a boost to my self confidence!

  • Yoel

    You are not gonna believe this! I read this last night and today at work I focused on my shoulders being perked up, my smile, (because before it really was obvious that I was coming on to them, I just didn’t know it was repulsive) and my chin to be at a 90 degree angle from my neck. A female at work told me I look like a grown man, and not a little kid like I usually do. She said there was something different in my facial expression. I should have been pissed but instead I tried really hard not to laugh.

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  • Ikari Shinji

    I love the information that you have published in this website. Reading this article should give someone a methodical approach in courting and avoid the common mistakes made by beginners while approaching women.

  • Freddy

    This is really very helpful!

  • Big Macintosh

    Thank you for publishing a site which tells men that the only way to get a girlfriend is to change their entire mindset on things! Call me Mr. Cynical, but in essence, that is what this site is. What this site does is convinces other men that girls only like guys that fit into the “boyfriend material” mold that you speak so fondly of. I happen to disagree. If anyone reading this comment is having second thought about reading the information contained here, please continue to read it. I’m not here to drive people away, just to make my opinion known. I may not be an expert in seduction, but I will say girls like guys that aren’t afraid to be themselves. Trust me, that’s how people used to do it. But by all means, read the information on this site. It may work for you and I’ll be happy if it does. Just don’t change your entire personality just to impress some girl, odds are she won’t be the one for you anyway if she only likes the false front that you put on for her and not the real you.

    Respectfully submitted,

  • GurbIR

    This website was very helpful for me. Now I have a sweet girlfriend and she really takes interest in me. I am very thankful to whoever has make this website.

  • Michael

    Hi Mann, I stumbled upon your site and I must really say you are doing a great job, you are influencing and educating millions of guys all around the world and I encourage you. I often don’t give feedbacks but I am so blessed that I just have to contact you. Your articles are true, factual, very easy to understand and connecting. I have recommended this site to other friends of mine and they say they like it already.. Please keep up the good work and I am looking forward to reading more of your articles. Thank you for helping me be a better boyfriend πŸ™‚ Cheers!

    Michael from Aberdeen, Scotland.

  • Charlie Brown

    Just wanted to tell you guys your site is awesome. When I get my girlfriend before year’s end, I will let you guys know. I am learning a lot about some mistake here, and I appreciate your efforts.

  • Liese Cooper

    As a mother, I really like everything you advise, you are sensible, sensitive, positive and very observant about us girls.

    Best wishes, Liese.